Learn how to CREATE a relationship that's effortless, fun, passionate and deeply intimate 

OR

Are you simply ready to learn how to make your relationship even more expansive?


YOU ARE IN THE RIGHT PLACE


This program is for couples

Who are committed to one another and yet know the love between them can be deepened if only they knew HOW.

And for those seeking the tools + skills to create a healthy relationship. 

Perhaps you are asking yourself...

“How can we communicate better?"

 

"How can be there for each other even through our triggers?"

 

How can I better identify my needs?

 

"How can we keep our desire and passion alive even with all the normal day-to-day stresses?"

and you know you'd have a more connected relationship if you knew the answers

but there's some doubt too...

If you are looking for the tools and teachings to learn how to have the happiest & healthiest relationship (with great sex too!)

THIS IS IT.

LEARN TO HAVE THE RELATIONSHIP WHERE YOU NEVER FIGHT OR MISCOMMUNICATE, MEET EACH OTHERS NEEDS, LAUGH FOR HOURS, FEEL DESIRED, HAVE MIND BLOWING CONNECTED SEX AND KNOW HOW TO NAVIGATE ANY RELATIONSHIP LANDMINES 💥

 

STEP 01

STEP 02

Clear up any past love wounds, triggers or hurts from childhood to stop expecting your partner to love you in the way your parents never did. Clear any resentments that stop your growth.

STEP 03

STEP 04

THIS IS THE EDUCATION ON 

HEALTHY COMMUNICATION + CULTIVATING DESIRE + THE PSYCHOLOGY OF LONG-TERM LOVE

YOU NEVER RECEIVED.

You see, we grew up watching and learning what a relationship is like from our parents (or primary caretakers), from then on we either fell into the same relationship patterns or then did a 180 degree turn. We fell in love several times, had our hearts broken, then found someone (finally) to commit to. 

 

What we aren't taught is that the first 18 months of our lives forms the basis of how we "do" relationships. There are plenty of unmet physical and emotional needs lingering from your childhood which show up as your triggers and behavior patterns in your relationship.

 

Tell us about your childhood and we can tell you why you have the relationship you do today.

 

It really is that simple.

It's time to clear your past love wounds to create the relationship you truly desire.

Are you both ready to learn the tools and resources to deepen your relationship?

Imagine this...

Imagine if you knew how to understand both your own triggers (hurts) and that of your partner so that whenever you did talk it came from a place of compassionate listening and being understood. This means you'll never have any heated arguments ever again.

 

That you felt so safe with each other that you both felt the ultimate expression of personal freedom, for a relationship that's truly intimate needs the solid foundation of trust and safety in order to blossom.

 

Imagine if your relationship was based on fun and play and that allowed the spaciousness for the fire of desire to burn for each other, stoking mutual sexual attraction just like in the beginning.

 

That you had such clarity and the feeling of co-creation in your relationship, so you never had to second guess your partners' behaviour or to question whether this is the relationship you want.

 

Imagine feeling so fulfilled from the heart outwards because you know your partner is showing up fully for you in all your emotional and physical intimacy needs.

 

 Imagine you created your ultimate healthy and conscious relationship; filled with   adventure, passion, deep love, emotional connection, soul sex, laughter-filled   memories and intimate conversation. 

 

It feels effortless, alive, freeing and secure.

We are teaching you all this and more...

BEFORE this program you...

  • Feeling the longing to connect on the emotional level

  • Afraid the spark is going to die out like it did in your last relationships

  • Not feeling understood completely

  • Still feeling stuck in old patterns in your relationship and no idea how to move past them

  • Sick of arguing about the same things over and over again

  • Constantly questioning the depth of the relationship and if it's growing

  • Looking for the tools to communicate better

  • Stressed and overwhelmed with the 'normal' to-do's of your life - you ask "how to make the time for each other?"

  • Your man doesn't seem to understand you and it leaves you frustrated

  • Your woman seems to be overly emotional and you don't know how to handle her

AFTER this program you...

  • Feel connected on the intellectual, physical, sexual and soul level

  • Know how to cultivate desire in both of you for the long-term

  • Feel understood and met

  • Feel clear about what caused your old patterns and learn how to manage and integrate them

  • Never argue because you know how to handle your own and your partners triggers

  • Feel the expansiveness of your relationship

  • Know how to consciously communicate without blame or judgement

  • Have the spaciousness you desire for more intimate time together

  • You feel understood by your man and it deepens your love for him

  • You know how to hold space for your woman's full range of expression and you are in awe of her

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Meet Ian & Nora

INTIMACY + RELATIONSHIP + HUMAN BEHAVIOUR EXPERTS


NORA (a #1 bestselling author) has been coaching women on femininity, self-expression, dating and relationships for 5 years. She is known for teaching 'Feminine Magnetism', helping women look at their insecurities so they can deepen the relationship they have with themselves to have a healthy and conscious relationship with a man. She is an expert in Conscious Communication, Inner Child Integration, Feminine Embodiment and the Psychology of Love and Attachment.

 

IAN is a Modern Masculinity coach, teaching men how to step into their masculine essence by teaching them the tools and resources to reconnect to themselves, uncover past patterns of sabotage and lean into being a heart-centred man so that they can create trust and safety inside their relationships. He is an expert in Systems Driven Behavior, Shadow Work, Male Archetypes and the Psychology of Trust and Safety.

 

Together we share over 15 years of research, personal experience and tools with couples who want to be in a relationship that fulfils them on all levels and, yes, that also includes having a sex life that makes others jealous. It's all part of having that epically fulfilling relationship!

 

We teach conscious communication, emotional and physical intimacy, masculine and feminine polarity dynamics, how to create trust and safety for each other and how to find the freedom to be you in your relationship.

Ian & Nora have worked with amazing people from companies such as

I have changed my life in so many ways, not only in my relationship but also with myself.

 

I learned how to address what is going inside of me first so that I can show up for my partner.

 

Camillie Galanais

Working with Nora has had a profound impact on my relationships, particularly the way that I view myself in romantic relationships.

Melanie

WEEK 2 Conscious Communication Tools

Understand how to listen and share with your partner without being needy, criticizing or judgemental to deepen emotional intimacy. 

  • Learn the difference between normal communication and conscious communication
  • Learn practical processes to navigate conflict and differing perspectives in a healthy way using our step by step guidelines
  • Examine the way you are currently communicating and the detrimental effect that's having on your relationship
  • Learn how to communicate in a way that cultivates safety and intimacy

WEEK 3 Masculine + Feminine Polarity Relationship Dynamics

Learn how to cultivate polarity in your relationship to cultivate burning desire for each other for years to come.

  • Understand what the differences between masculine and feminine energy and how they impact the dynamics of your relationship
  • Learn what men really want and what women really want
  • Understand how to fully embody your masculine/feminine energies and create the space for your partner to do the same
  • Learn how being in your full masculine/feminine energy creates the natural attraction for desire to blossom

WEEK 4 Cultivating Trust & Safety

Create the conditions for desire AND security to flourish in your relationship so you can feel met on the emotional, physical, intellectual and spiritual levels.

  • Learn the importance of cultivating trust and safety in your relationship from the psychological perspective
  • Understand your own needs for safety and learn the processes to integrate unmet childhood physical and emotional needs
  • Learn practical tools and exercises for fostering trust and safety within your relationship
  • Learn how to safely express your needs, wants and desires to your partner to remove unmet expectations that cause relationship friction

WEEK 5 Fun, Play, Passion & Desire Games

Learn about the psychology of desire and how to create the environment for arousal to blossom by implementing our fun practices at home.

  • Understand the psychology of arousal vs desire
  • Learn what Intimacy Inhibitors and Intimacy Accelerators are and how they impact desire and arousal
  • Explore practical and fun exercises to create the environment for desire to blossom
  • Learn about the psychology of long-term love, desire and intimacy to keep it alive for years to come

WEEK 6 Sexual Intimacy Expanded

Understand how to deepen your sexual intimacy using tools such as mindfulness, sensuality and energetics.

  • Learn how to shift from performance-based sex to deeply connected experiential sex using the foundations of Tantra
  • Learn how to expand your capacity for pleasure by connecting to your own sexual identity
  • Make sex forever exciting by broadening your perspective on sexual intimacy to get out of the rut of 'routine' sex
  • Learn how to communicate your sexual desires in a way that makes your partner want to gift you an extraordinary sexual experience

WEEK 7 Devotional Practices

Bring sacredness and ritual into your relationship to turn it from boring to expansive

  • Understand why a relationship is actually a devotion to each other and a devotion to growing together
  • Learn beautiful practical exercises that allow you to show your devotion to your partner 
  • Learn how to treat your relationship as a sacred entity that allows the freedom of individual growth inside your relationship container

The most in depth and practical training about

relationships + communication + psychology of love 

you'll ever need.

 

If you knew what tools and practices to use daily to make your relationship effortless and full of love...

 

Would you want that?

  • feel they could use some tools in understanding themselves better

     

  • know that their relationship could be more fun, intimate and secure

     

  • want to learn how to create a healthy and conscious relationship

     

  • love the idea of learning how to expand the depth of their relationship

     

Read their experience working with us...

Deborah Bates

I approached Nora at a time of significant personal and professional transition, and I was ready to let go of past traumas, and invite new positive experiences into my life. My goal was to achieve clarity, boost my confidence, and discover what I truly wanted surrounding my romantic relationship, and wow, did Nora help me find that. 

 

In our first session, what became apparent to me was her sense of presence, magic, and engagement. She comes prepared and gives herself entirely to the coachee during the time together. I truly felt that she wanted the best for me. She made herself totally available in between sessions, which for coaching is an absolute necessity, as it keeps the coachee accountable.

 

We then started to release old traumas through an intense process, and cleared the way for me to see truly what I wanted. After this life transforming experience, we worked on creating crystal clear clarity and vision on what I wanted; on daring to dream; on developing the self confidence and self awareness to feel that I deserve and will obtain this highest vision.

 

The result of the work does not come in one day, but YES! It does come. And along the way, you have to be ready to let go of old patterns of behaviors, limiting beliefs about yourself, and even relationships, that are "just settling" and serve your fears rather than your truest desires. But after the cleansing process and the hard work is over, new people, new resources and better experiences come your way, and this clear vision that we created together is being realized. 

 

I highly recommend working with Nora if you have experienced overwhelming life situations, which may be holding you back; if you have struggled in believing that true love will find you; and if you are wishing to discover your inner, unbridled light that can take you wherever it is you need to go.  Be ready to work.... and then to receive!

 

Mark Duluh

Ian Collins has one of the most perceptive, insightful minds of any coach I have worked with. He is immensely talented at his craft and is a skilled and wise coach. Much of this is due to the unflappable and non-negotiable integrity and empathy that he injects into each interaction, qualities that he possesses in abundance.

 

His trademark phrase; “I’m curious to know…” speaks not only to the authenticity of his interest, but also to its alignment with his personal mission of creating self-awareness in people through coaching.

 

I am as a person, as a husband, as a father and as a friend, markedly better for my work with Ian. I am now empowered with practical skills that enable me to respond rather than react, whatever the circumstances.

 

Furthermore, as the circumstances arise, I am able to self-identify tendencies in my behaviour that require amplification, and others that require limiting. This provides me with a quiet and incalculably valuable sense of self-control – which supports my confidence and sense of self-esteem.

 

It is profound stuff and I owe this, directly, to the gentle, firm and kind guidance that Ian Collins has provided to me.

 

I cannot recommend this man, nor his expertise, more highly.

HERE IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU GET...

With our 8 Week DEEPER IN LOVE Program

8x WEEKLY IMPACTFUL VIDEO MASTERCLASSES

  • Short and to the point masterclass videos to watch at your own convenience with your partner every Sunday as they are released.

8x WEEKLY PDF TRAINING MANUALS ON KEY CONCEPTS

  • Explore the key concepts we are teaching with these easy-to-follow outlines of the core topics. Print out and keep at home for easy reference!

8x WEEKLY PDF JOURNALING QUESTIONS

  • Each week receive guiding journaling questions to answer separately or together to get in touch with your desires, triggers and what's really going on for you

3x BRAIN REWIRING AUDIO MEDITATIONS

  • Feminine Magnetism Meditation for the ladies
  • Modern Masculinity Meditation for the men
  • Tantric Connection Meditation for both of you together

PLUS ALL THESE

*EXTRA BONUSES*

because we are committed to teaching you all we know...

GET ALL THIS AS A BONUS 

I approached Nora because I was feeling like I wasn't able to trust my own instincts when it came to men and relationships.  I had done a lot of shadow work prior to working with Nora but felt like I wasn't able to trust myself fully.

 

She helped me by reprogramming some childhood memories via NLP, tools to be able to comfort my inner child at times when I become to feel unsafe and advice on how to lean more into my feminine energy and trust myself more.

 

The result was I am much calmer and trusting that the universe will deliver me everything that i want, and has enabled me to let go of my attachment to outcomes of situations.  I believe this is because my inner child feels more comforted and safe.  I have also found the strength to cut out some unhealthy bonds I was forming to some men who were part of my old patterns.

 

 

I found the experience emotional, comforting, nourishing and worthwhile.

 

I would recommend Nora as a relationship + sex coach to anyone who needs help in finding ways to connect with their inner child, find safety in themselves and to stop outsourcing their validation.

Sarah O'Conner

I had been looking for ways to improve my relationships and communication. I felt really stuck, and sometimes felt as though I was speaking a different language, or worse, was invisible.  

 

With Ian I have learned tools to improve my communication, and thus my relationships, both at work and at home.  It really all boils down to better self-management…  I can now better recognize my own limitations; I assess relationships and events with more awareness; and I am becoming a lot more intentional in the way I act and respond.  The result? I am starting to achieve the desired outcomes for a change, instead of the same old unintended, but increasingly predictable, consequences! 

 

This journey of self-reflection and development is a tough one, but with Ian’s help I have managed to make a powerful start, and I feel so much stronger for it. 

 

I have found Ian to be an incredibly astute and compassionate individual who really connects with and cares for his clients. I have felt extremely supported by him… it can be a scary thing to look in the mirror and analyse what you see.  Ian managed to make what could have been an uncomfortable and vulnerable process feel really empowering and positive. 

Tiffany Marshall-Smith

WHAT IS IT WORTH TO YOU

TO HAVE THE MOST DEEPLY PASSIONATE, HEALTHY, EMOTIONALLY INTIMATE, OPENLY COMMUNICATIVE, FUN AND EFFORTLESS RELATIONSHIP?

This is a lifetime investment into your relationship

 

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for a lifetime of happy, sexy, fun love

for a lifetime of happy, sexy, fun love


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IMAGINE HOW MUCH MONEY + TIME + HURT YOU WOULD SAVE IF YOU *KNEW*

you would never have to go to couples therapy or marriage therapy, you knew how to make your partner feel met so they don't emotionally cheat on you, save on the 'I'm sorry' gifts or simply never have to deal with frustrations or guilt again within yourself. You can avoid all this if you know the tools.

 

 

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for a lifetime of happy, sexy, fun love

for a lifetime of happy, sexy, fun love


ONE OFF PAYMENT


 

100% RESULTS

MONEY BACK GUARANTEE

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